Baby Steps Blog

Gender Equality

Published July 1, 2014

We’ve been taking a look at the World Health Organization’s Millennial Goals and how our own feeding of our babies can help change the world, both locally and globally. This week’s challenge is: Promote gender equality and empower women. I breastfed my baby because I wanted her to have all the wonderful benefits my milk would bring to her. One of my mantras was, “My daughter will know that when she speaks, the world will listen! I’m going to respond to her when she cries and she will never want for love and milk!” I had no idea that what I was doing was a profoundly political act that would change my life and the way I inter...

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Little Nursing Persons: Child-Led Weaning & Mama-Encouraged Weaning

Published June 11, 2014

WEANING There are times of ebb and flow – if you want to wean most easily, do it when the child is LESS interested in nursing. (Makes sense, but sometimes we are just crazy when they want to nurse all the time and WE are ready to wean!) Don’t offer, don’t refuse Think through your own reasons for weaning – and remember it’s a PROCESS not a moment in time Also think through your child’s reasons for nursing. It will guide you in how to offer other things when you don’t want to nurse. (For example – is s/he hungry? Bored? Upset? Don’t offer food if they’re bored…don’t offer a teddy bear if they are hungry.) Sta...

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Achieve Universal Primary Education

Published May 6, 2014

This is Post 2 in a series of posts about the World Breastfeeding Week 2014 theme Breastfeeding: Scoring the Winning Goal for Life. Goal #2 is

Achieve Universal Primary Education

We often think of breastfeeding as a way of providing “optimal nutrition” for our babies, without thinking too much about what a big topic this can be. (And by the way – if we know that breastmilk is the normal food for babies, probably we should say that other things are “suboptimal nutrition”.)

Some Wrong Thinking

When I first star...

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Eradicate Hunger

Published April 28, 2014

We celebrate World Breastfeeding Week (WBW)  every year during the first week of August. But we work on supporting, promoting and protecting breastfeeding every day of the year. The theme for this year’s WBW is Breastfeeding: Scoring the Winning Goal for Life!  Here on Baby Steps we’re going to take a look at the eight United Nations Millennial Development Goals and see how breastfeeding can help to achieve them.

 Goal # 1: Eradicate extreme poverty and hunger.

It’s ironic that, during the 1950’s and 1960’s, breastfeeding was something viewed here in t...

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Ten Ways to Reduce Your Anxiety About Birth

Published April 11, 2014

We all grow and change during pregnancy – some of that growth we can see from the outside, as we gain our healthy share of weight to nourish our unborn babies. But lots of the growth and change during pregnancy comes in the way that we see ourselves. After all I am not just me anymore – there’s a baby in there! And then there’s the growth and change that comes when we think about giving birth to our babies. That baby has to make the journey to our arms – and there is no magic crystal ball to tell us what the journey of birth will be like for us. Most women describe their birthing experience as “one of the peak experiences of my...

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Help Mom Feel the Love During Birth

Published February 14, 2014

photo credit: Birth can really make or break the start of your journey as a mother. When I got pregnant, I remember how I wondered – what would David do during the labor and birth? We took very traditional, old-fashioned Lamaze classes, and he dutifully wrote down what time each of my contractions started and ended. It kept him busy and gave him something to do – he also rubbed my back and never left my side. I found it was the “never left my side” that was oh-so-important to me. (Seriously, he drank a lot of coffee so there must’ve been at least one other function he needed to leave me for. But I remember him being there every minute!) And...

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Finding the Right Doctor for your Baby

Published January 22, 2014

Most of us don’t think about “choosing a doctor for my baby” when we get pregnant. But one of the big surprises of parenthood is – you will have a real friend in your baby’s doctor. After all, you’ll be seeing them at least seven times in the first year of your baby’s life – and that’s just for what’s called “well child visits”! Many babies here in Windham County go to a pediatrician for their care; others join the family practice where their moms and dads receive care. Here are some questions to ask yourself – and some to ask as you interview a doctor for your baby. You can call local offices to schedule a free ...

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Hello Grandma and Grandpa!

Published January 8, 2014

I’ve heard people talk about how wonderful it is to be a grandparent. And I know that is true – but even after years of working with new mothers, I found my relationship with my daughter the 'new mother to be' – well, fraught. I think she’s a great mom, and has been from the beginning. But I could tell she didn’t always believe that, and it was hard to find ways to help her see herself as the competent being she is! If you’re having a baby, and especially if it’s the first grandchild, you may find it helpful to know that most grandparents-to-be know a few things to be true: No one is a perfect parent. We all struggle to b...

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No Biggie – Happy Holidays

Published December 17, 2013

What makes you crazy this time of year? Be very careful – don’t “should” on yourself! (That’s a quote from Jeanne Watson Driscoll) Holidays bring so many different kinds of emotions. Every one of us has memories and traditions, and somehow “the stuff” all gets so wrapped up in there too. We want to tell our kids how much we love them – and all of a sudden we’re wondering if we’re going to be able to do the laundry this week. Or we’ve racked up a credit card bill that is going to be trouble. I have a lot of degrees. I started out in English literature, and then learned a lot about apples, vegetables, Vermont product...

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Ten Ways to Keep Your Kids Healthier This Winter!

Published November 25, 2013

A lot of parenting is just plain common sense. But we’ve lived in a world of antibiotics and immunizations for a long time – sometimes I don’t even think about hygiene and good living as a way to stay healthy. So here’s some food for thought during this season of thanks – and opportunities for eating! 1. Breastfeed Come on, you knew I was going to start with that! But my own opinions set aside, breastfeeding is as close as it gets to magic when it comes to keeping babies healthy. Moms’ milk has antibodies and immunities not only against the illnesses and “predators” she’s come across – she actually makes them on-the-spot...

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